Quotes about your ex dating someone new
Maybe you needed to learn to validate yourself and accept yourself. They were brought to you as a reflection of yourself.Thank them for being a part of your journey and send them on their way in your mind. As a sexual abuse survivor that struggled for years with depression anxiety, low self-esteem, lack of self-love, and relationship issues, she found her purpose through writing and sharing her story with others.
I knew he was struggling with trying to commit to me. A month later he called and said he was willing to try again. I still couldn’t wrap my head around how he could never say anything. Why couldn’t he say, “I really care about you, but I can’t” or something.It has nothing to do with you or the relationship or something you did wrong or that you weren’t enough.I’ve dealt with trying to get closure a few times, and it’s awful.You were used to having them around, hearing their voice, getting their texts, cuddling on the couch. Sometimes you know why it ended, and sometimes not. We can accept that the relationship has changed or that they want something else.Often, you wish you could talk to that person to obtain some closure and some sort of validation that the relationship truly existed and that you meant something…anything. What if you follow all the experts’ advice on what to do after a breakup, and they completely ignore you anyway? What we can’t accept is our partner’s inability to communicate that fact effectively and tell us what went wrong.Despite the end of the relationship, he had come to be an important part of my life. When I look back, I realize I wanted him to validate our relationship. I wanted to know I had meant something to him, anything. I can only control myself and my actions and how I deal with the ending of another relationship that I thought could mean something.
So I called a few weeks later and said I wanted to be friends and that he meant a lot to me. The truth is that I will never know, and I’ve had to come to terms with that. The only thing I could do was to look at my mistakes and my behavior patterns and work on my side of the street, because I was never going to get answers or closure from him. If people want to be in your life they make an effort.
Narvel also has three children from his previous marriage - Brandon (who also a music manager and is wed to singer Kelly Clarkson), Shawna and Chassidy Blackstock.
Have you asked yourself these questions at the end of a relationship? Actually, I was asking myself these very questions about six months ago.
So instead, I suggest the following: Write one every day if you need to. We all create explanations in our heads as to why our ex won’t talk to us. And you can decide if you want to wallow in self-pity and misery, or pick yourself up off the floor and be the spectacular, amazing person you are and get out there and show yourself to the world. Put all the little pieces of paper in the bowl and light them on fire. Accept that what once was, is no longer, and what you thought would be will never be. There are literally millions of single people in the world. Stop thinking that you’ll never find someone else so wonderful. I’m sure you would love for your ex to say, “You are truly amazing and wonderful, but I don’t think we are a match.” The reason most won’t say this is that they don’t want you to come back at them with all sorts of reasons why you are a match, so they’d rather avoid the topic altogether.
We imagine they think bad things about us, they don’t want us, that we weren’t enough, or that everything was our fault. Watch the words burn and with them, let the feelings go. If it’s meant to be in the future, it will find a way to work itself out. If they were so wonderful they would still be with you. For whatever reason, your ex has chosen to cease all communication with you.
Lastly, if you are waiting for your ex to give you closure, it might be time to dig deep inside and give it to yourself.